Emotional Chit-Chatting

Observing emotions outside of yourSelf, instead of entertaining them internally, is a KEY ingredient to being able to manage them creatively, effectively & efficiently. Here we are working with active imaginology or Interactive Self-Hypnosis, taking emotional management to higher levels. Just imagine how much power you have given to your emotions over the years & still tend to give! Think about today. Can you locate any moment or group of moments forming a remembered experience when your emotions were in charge & not your Therapeutic or Balanced Self? Sit back & view this happening in the Theater of Your Mind. How would you rate this production? The "library of your mind", located subconsciously, is filled with these experiences. The good news is that you are now learning to release or edit these programs.

Emotions tend to appear in groups. It helps to think of them as "families". As you learn to enhance your emotional awareness, you will hear them "chit-chatting" in your mind, having regular conversations just as you would with others.Of course, you recognize these as your thoughts, but now your thoughts are not just random, but belonging to specific emotions or families of emotions. This might seem like a small thing, but it is not. The more heightened your awareness, the easier it is to edit or change an experience, either inside your mind or outside in your environment.

You might remember my telling you that emotions can be very helpful; even the negative-based ones. Your Unbalanced Self introduced you to some of them in the beginning of this book. They were causing some havoc down in the playground. Since you made peace with your Unbalanced Self, that part is now willing to help you in your recovery from disorderly eating. As you come to know them more intimately, they will show you what you need to know in order to manage them. You may wonder why this is. Truth be known, all emotions prefer to be in healthy balance. They prefer not to be in charge, but to be in the company of a quiet, assertive leader, one who will help them to meet their own needs.

NOTE TO NEW READERS:

This experiential blog/workshop is based on my new book, "How Many Cookies Will It Take to Make Me Happy?" If you are new to my writing, you might want to read the earlier mini-chapters. They are available on FaceBook, The PublishersMarketPlace & at the following link. Remember to scan down to find the earliest chapters & work your way up. http://beyonddisorderlyeating.blogspot.com/
A bit of background.... we are working with creative Interactive Self-Hypnosis imagery, planting suggestions directly into the creative subconscious mind as you read along. What appears like a story is a series of self-hypnotic sessions, designed to bring about desired lifestyle changes. The inner mind is creative & rather child-like, loving to play with images, especially when they are emotionalized. Just like the saying, "a picture is worth a thousand words", well-planted mind images, can be worth hours of therapy. We can actually change or motivate in 1/200th of a second. So come along & look forward to some lifestyle-changing events

KNOWLEDGE HOOKS

There is much to learn from self-observation of inner chatter. You already know that these are your thought processes, but they are much more than that. Each thought moment fragment is an actual subconscious mind goal program. Your subconscious mind sees & hears everything, as if it were true & goal material. If you allow thought processes to play out as they do on automatic pilot, they will be seen by your subconscious mind as your chosen goals & that is not the end of it. Your subconscious mind is like radar or what's called a servo-mechanism. It will serve you in a special way by actually finding other programs in your subconscious mind library that will support this. Then it will go out into the world, bringing back more information to support your "thought moment fragment." This great, as long as you are playing thought programs about things you want, but if you are not, you are going to get exactly what you don't want & you are about to get a lot of it!

WHAT'S GOING ON NOW

Remember the emotional childSelf coloring the daily experiences? Your TeacherSelf is inviting you to closely observe one of those pages that was colored in with some negative emotional colors. Choose anyone you like. These subconscious mind programs all belong to you, the reader. They are all memories of yours & can play out just like a little video with action & sound. Keep in mind that you are not "in the scene", but outside of it as an interested observer...the Director of your life. Go ahead & allow it to play out. Listen carefully to the emotions as they demonstrate the inner language of the crayons. Don't be surprised if the language is a bit on the nasty side. When you've gotten an earful, fully understand that these are mini-mind programs, taking you down a dark path. Not the way you are choosing to go. When you have finished observing this page, give it to your TeacherSelf who will throw it away in the bottomless garbage can over there.

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Copyright 2009 Elizabeth Bohorquez, RN, C.Ht
May not be copied or reproduced without permission of the author.

Elizabeth Bohorquez, RN, C.Ht is author of Sugar...the Hidden Eating Disorder & How to Lick It. She is also the writer/producer of over 350 mp3/CD programs in the areas of medicine, health, prevention, addictions, self-development & sports for adults & children.

http://www.hypnosis-audio.com
http://www.sugar-addiction.com
http://www.international-medical-health-writers.com

Emotional Art Work

Manage your emotions or they will manage you! Sounds logical, but how does one go about doing this? Working diligently with emotions is key to managing addictions & disorderly mind states. From the time you were born, you have been deeloping your own brand of emotional patterning. Some of the patterns are heavily etched & are super-automatic. You may have mentored some of these from others, especially when you were very young & more sponge-like. At that time of life, you absorbed everything, even if you didn't like it or agree to it. A good exercise is to become aware of what you dislike, or what annoys you about your parents or siblings, then look for those in yourSelf. You can do the same exercise with your significant other or your relationships with your children, relatives & friends. It's not uncommon to be blind to one's own patterns, as well as to the emotional states that automatically attach to them. Becoming aware or awake to emotional patterns & their crayons is KEY to diminishing those that produce negative tones, while giving you the opportunity to enhance the coloring of those that are helpful

NOTE TO NEW READERS:

This experiential blog/workshop is based on my new book, "How Many Cookies Will It Take to Make Me Happy?" If you are new to my writing, you might want to read the earlier mini-chapters. They are available on FaceBook, The PublishersMarketPlace & at the following link. Remember to scan down to find the earliest chapters & work your way up. http://beyonddisorderlyeating.blogspot.com/
A bit of background.... we are working with creative Interactive Self-Hypnosis imagery, planting suggestions directly into the creative subconscious mind as you read along. What appears like a story is a series of self-hypnotic sessions, designed to bring about desired lifestyle changes. The inner mind is creative & rather child-like, loving to play with images, especially when they are emotionalized. Just like the saying, "a picture is worth a thousand words", well-planted mind images, can be worth hours of therapy. We can actually change or motivate in 1/200th of a second. So come along & look forward to some lifestyle-changing events

KNOWLEDGE HOOKS

Throughout my books you will find hooks, designed for hanging newly presented knowledge. While these hooks are very important, they are simply not enough to evoke lifestyle behavioral changes. One must take the knowledge off of the hook & bring it to the worktable where a plan is designed & then executed. Let's go ahead & experiment with this.

Working with emotional states is a skill just like anything else. We have emotions that work in a positive way for us & others that don't. When looking to identify emotional states, which is a KEY practice, you will come to know that there are hundreds of them. few people can name more than twenty. Some emotions are experienced as having high-power negative energy or coloring, such as intense anger. You also have emotions that are high-powered positive energy or coloring. Ecstacy being a good example. You also have low-powered negative & positive emotions. There energy or coloring is very different. Annoyance is a negative example of one of these, with pleasantness living in the positive column. Sometimes the momentary experience is about the "choice" of emotion & other times, it's about the intensity of the crayoning.

Here we are practicing Interactive Awareness, which helps you to see the details of the emotions & what is truly unfolding in the moment. How good are your self-observation skills? While most of us can name or describe our high-powered positive & negative emotions, most of us fall short when it comes to the lower-powered ones. This is most unfortunate because these are the emotions that hang around more frequently, coloring daily experiences & are usually the ones responsible for addictions & interfering with other goal achievement.

So, now we have this knowledge hanging on the hook. Let's go ahead & take it into the SchoolHouse & place it in "active imaginology."

WHAT'S GOING ON NOW

We find the emotional children in the SchoolHouse, of course wearing their Golden Egg Shapes, in preparation for new learnings. The children are very relaxed & you notice that. Since you have just entered, go ahead & tune into that level of deep relaxation for yourSelf. It's quite easy to do. Simply notice & then breathe. You might remember this as the instructions for "releasing" & that is exactly what you are doing now; releasing body tension & slowing your brain waves, ready to enter the "library of your mind." When you are ready, notice that there are large boxes of crayons on the desk of each child. Inside each box is a crayon labeled with the name of a particular emotion. Stop at the desk of that emotional childSelf...one that is involved in disorderly eating adventures.

Ask permission to open the crayon box. When it is granted, look for the crayon labeled "depressed" or "sad" or "compulsive" or "angry" or "fearful" or "helpless" or any other emotion that brings you into any scene of disorderly eating or one of it's equivalents. On the desk you will also find a coloring book that depicts actual scenes from your life experiences in this genre. Now take the emotional crayon & begin to color in the picture. Notice you can press hard & color in dark strokes OR you can hold the crayon lightly & just place a hue of color. Your TeacherSelf is now at your side, removing the crayon & instructing the page to "un-color", freeing you to choose a positive crayon, perhaps the one labeled "wise" or "balanced" or something similar. You choose.

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Copyright 2009 Elizabeth Bohorquez, RN, C.Ht
May not be copied or reproduced without permission of the author.

Elizabeth Bohorquez, RN, C.Ht is author of Sugar...the Hidden Eating Disorder & How to Lick It. She is also the writer/producer of over 350 mp3/CD programs in the areas of medicine, health, prevention, addictions, self-development & sports for adults & children.

http://www.hypnosis-audio.com
http://www.sugar-addiction.com
http://www.international-medical-health-writers.com

Thoughts Are Things

Oh those pesky thoughts! Do know that managing them is paramount to making changes. Here, we're making changes related to Disorderly Eating & all of it's facets, so that means managing lots of thoughts. At first glance, it may seem an impossible task, but it's not. Yes, it will take hot desire & commitment, but remember...we're talking about your life here & so just knowing that it's doable, should feel good. I suggest we start by removing any confusion about thoughts in general.

Simply put, thoughts are things. We'll be looking at them as DVD's that play in the mind. As our imaginology continues, these DVD's fall into specific categories & are placed in the mind by the emotional childSelves. I'm sure you're getting the full picture here. You already know that we all have emotions that work for us & others that don't. You don't have to look far to know what kinds of DVD's are placed in the mind by these very different emotional states. Earlier on, you learned that these are carried in the backpacks of specific emotions. In fact, you met up with some of them in the Theater of the Mind. Here's what's important. Every thought is a goal mind-program unto itself. Every thought acts like radar, pulling similar thoughts up from the subconscious mind to enhance it. In addition, the radar will pull like-minded images from life, once again to support it. And so, if you are playing thoughts about things you don't want, this can create huge, if not insurmountable road blocks to your success.

You already know from "directing" in the Theater of the Mind & soon will come to learn more about how each "disorderly behavior" is boosted by particular thoughts or beliefs that are often very well cemented in the subconscious mind. But, don't worry about the cement. When working with your Therapeutic Self, Higher Self or Power, even the most powerful cement can come be removed effortlessly. This is an example of the power that you have. But, there are things you must do...actions you must take. Your work involves becoming aware of those thoughts that work against you & then removing them. You'll also be enhancing positive thoughts, as well as installing brand new thoughts. Remember file "E"?

NOTE TO NEW READERS:

This experiential blog/workshop is based on my new book, "How Many Cookies Will It Take to Make Me Happy?" If you are new to my writing, you might want to read the earlier mini-chapters. They are available on FaceBook, The PublishersMarketPlace & at the following link. Remember to scan down to find the earliest chapters & work your way up. http://beyonddisorderlyeating.blogspot.com/
A bit of background.... we are working with creative Interactive Self-Hypnosis imagery, planting suggestions directly into the creative subconscious mind as you read along. What appears like a story is a series of self-hypnotic sessions, designed to bring about desired lifestyle changes. The inner mind is creative & rather child-like, loving to play with images, especially when they are emotionalized. Just like the saying, "a picture is worth a thousand words", well-planted mind images, can be worth hours of therapy. We can actually change or motivate in 1/200th of a second. So come along & look forward to some lifestyle-changing events

WHAT'S GOING ON NOW

We find the emotional children in the SchoolHouse, of course wearing their Golden Egg Shapes, in preparation for new learnings. You might remember about the importance of educating & gaining cooperation of the emotional childSelf. You'll appreciate it later on when there is less inner arguing & foot-stamping. As before, you can either observe from outside, or come inside & take a seat in the back of the room. Your TeacherSelf is showing an image to everyone, demonstrating where the thought DVD's are placed in the slot of the mind & how it is your responsibility to decide when something is to be removed or to allow it to play. In the future, the emotions will be less likely to put something in your mind slot without your permission, for indeed, their goal is to be helpful & balanced.

THE IN'S & THE OUT'S OF THOUGHT MANAGEMENT

It's important to learn to "notice" thoughts. In the future, you'll be instructed how to also pay attention to the very specific emotion that is placing a particular genre of thoughts in your DVD mind-slot, but for now, lets just focus on how the thoughts go in & out. You already know about the Golden Egg & how it is utilized to exit the Circus of the World. When you are in the Circus, it is more difficult to see, sense or remove a thought, but it's a totally different story when you are in the Golden Egg. It's the same for the emotional childSelf. When that part of you is "active" within the Circus, that's all the emotion cares about & it's often difficult to disengage the childSelf from it's emotional binge. So, instead of fighting, you as the leader, will instead choose to enter the Golden Egg. From this position, you become the "director" once again & can edit the happenings, just as you did in the Theater of the Mind. Also, your connection to your Higher Self & Power is without obstruction from inside the Golden Egg.

Your TeacherSelf is instructing all of you to practice returning to the Golden Egg. This is a meditative exercise & needs to become a part of your daily ritual. You do have a file folder for this. It's labeled "B". You might remember that is the folder for "Deep Relaxation" & that is exactly right. Perhaps, in the past, you thought about Deep Relaxation in a different way. Now you are learning that the act of Deep Relaxation can be done in just 1/200th of a second, transporting you from the Circus into the Golden Egg. In this moment of transport, the body & mind both relax, bringing balance to it's systems. The mind also knows that the specific thought that you deemed to be released, was not requested by you. This thought interruption is KEY to recovery from Disorderly Eating behaviors. Each time you instruct the mind regarding an unrequested thought, the heavy cement will loosen, enabling you to change your inner programming, no matter how long it's been living there.

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Copyright 2009 Elizabeth Bohorquez, RN, C.Ht
May not be copied or reproduced without permission of the author.

Elizabeth Bohorquez, RN, C.Ht is author of Sugar...the Hidden Eating Disorder & How to Lick It. She is also the writer/producer of over 350 mp3/CD programs in the areas of medicine, health, prevention, addictions, self-development & sports for adults & children.

http://www.hypnosis-audio.com
http://www.sugar-addiction.com
http://www.international-medical-health-writers.com

Next Come Letters D & E

Today it's still about the ABC's....more precisely, the letters D & E. We're not going through the whole alphabet, but just utilizing the first 5 letters as a way to order what needs to be done on a daily basis. Other SchoolHouse lessons will fit inside these categories. If this sounds like self-discipline, you are right on the mark. Unfortunately the word discipline has gotten a bad rap. Discipline is a very powerful tool that actually makes living a balanced life much easier. You may have the idea that discipline isn't for you, but the truth is that you are already disciplined in many areas of life. Here are a few examples; brushing your teeth, washing the dishes, driving to work, going to church, doing the laundry, reading the Sunday paper, checking your email. The list is very long. Quite honestly, if discipline was not present in your life, it would be impossible to navigate.

If you backed away from the discipline word regarding your lifestyle behaviors, that is simply your out of control emotional childSelf who simply wants things to remain the same. What's interesting about this part of the Self is that the child emotion simply wants you to stay happy within your dysfunctional living. Unfortunately, that isn't possible, if you want to save your life, for that is what we're doing here. This is not about a smaller waist, although you will get one if extra fat is stored in that area. It's not about a lower scale weight number, although you will get one if that part of your body is out of balance. What this is about is preventing killer diseases & living a healthy life with all it's benefits.

NOTE TO NEW READERS:

This experiential blog/workshop is based on my new book, "How Many Cookies Will It Take to Make Me Happy?" If you are new to my writing, you might want to read the earlier mini-chapters. They are available on FaceBook, The PublishersMarketPlace & at the following link. Remember to scan down to find the earliest chapters & work your way up. http://beyonddisorderlyeating.blogspot.com/
A bit of background.... we are working with creative Interactive Self-Hypnosis imagery, planting suggestions directly into the creative subconscious mind as you read along. What appears like a story is a series of self-hypnotic sessions, designed to bring about desired lifestyle changes. The inner mind is creative & rather child-like, loving to play with images, especially when they are emotionalized. Just like the saying, "a picture is worth a thousand words", well-planted mind images, can be worth hours of therapy. We can actually change or motivate in 1/200th of a second. So come along & look forward to some lifestyle-changing events

WHAT'S GOING ON NOW

The emotional children are in the SchoolHouse with their Golden Egg Shapes on, ready to install the letters D & E. As before, you can either observe from outside, or come inside & take a seat in the back of the room. From this position you can be an observer, as the programs enter subconscious mind via the route of the childSelves who will actually be motivational helpers to yourSelf. Balanced emotions are always helpful & can be very pro-active in positive ways once they are well-educated. Letters A, B & C are already in place. Think of these as "folders" in the mind's filing cabinet. Each day you will live your life, following the directions stored there. Relax with the children now as the next two folders are installed.

INSTALLING LETTERS D & E

The letter "D" folder is where your physical exercise plans & instructions are kept. In the front of the folder is your physician's permission slip. Be sure to always obtain this in advance. It's an important safety for your health. The body & mind needs a daily dose of physical activity & while the activity choices may differ from day to to day, physical movement is essential. It is not healthy to be a couch potato or the office equivalent, a desk potato. You will notice that there are "no excuses" in the "D" folder. Perhaps they were there in the past, but they are gone now. Your body systems don't make excuses for not wanting to work. Think about that for a moment. Can you imagine your heart or lungs telling you that they're just too tired or too busy to work for you today....maybe next week when things calm down a bit. Or suppose that you were your heart, waiting for your nutrition that includes physical exercise & it never arrives or it's delivered in stops & starts. Suppose your owner takes you to the gym for a month & then doesn't take you back for another three months? How would you manage that?

Once your physician OK's your exercise, your self-responsibility will be to sit down & write out a detailed plan, just as you would plan anything else, such as a vacation. You will then test drive it hypnotically, making any adjustments such as timing, scheduling, etc. If other people will be impacted by your plan, you will discuss it with them, but from the position of your Therapeutic Self. Remember, you are in charge. You are the writer, director & producer of your life. Once the detailed plan is ready, you will execute it, keeping it motivated in ways you will learn later on in this book.

Folder 5 is labeled letter "E" & is the most fluid of all folders. That means it will get dog-eared from use, for this is the folder for brand new mind programs, as well as older, useful programs that may need some editing. As you look into letter "E", you'll notice that there are no negative programs here. All have been removed. Negativity does not enter the SchoolHouse. All lessons here are about what you want & not what you don't want. Notice that it feels good to have this folder cleaned & cleared out, rather like a messy room that miraculously is put into order. This is the power of the subconscious mind.

Your folders are ready now. How nice it is to hold your directions in organized containments.

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Copyright 2009 Elizabeth Bohorquez, RN, C.Ht
May not be copied or reproduced without permission of the author.

Elizabeth Bohorquez, RN, C.Ht is author of Sugar...the Hidden Eating Disorder & How to Lick It. She is also the writer/producer of over 350 mp3/CD programs in the areas of medicine, health, prevention, addictions, self-development & sports for adults & children.

http://www.hypnosis-audio.com
http://www.sugar-addiction.com
http://www.international-medical-health-writers.com

Always Begin With Your ABC's

Nothing is difficult or impossible to achieve if you go about it in an organized fashion, but for most individuals with Disorderly Eating issues, it's next to impossible to get organized, because one doesn't know exactly what to organize. Now this is not "double-talk" but the true reality, much of it brought about by the physiological imbalance of the Disorderly Eating itself, with it's accompanying emotional confusion. So, the disorganization is both physical & emotional at the same time. I liken it to a big bowl of pasta with all of the strands wrapped around each other. Today is about emptying the bowl & organizing what needs to be done & in the order it needs to be done. No more guess work. No more wondering if you're doing the right thing. No more fear of failure. None of that is necessary, nor helpful. Today is about the ABC's.

NOTE TO NEW READERS:

This experiential blog/workshop is based on my new book, "How Many Cookies Will It Take to Make Me Happy?" If you are new to my writing, you might want to read the earlier mini-chapters. They are available on FaceBook, The PublishersMarketPlace & at the following link. Remember to scan down to find the earliest chapters & work your way up. http://beyonddisorderlyeating.blogspot.com/
A bit of background.... we are working with creative Interactive Self-Hypnosis imagery, planting suggestions directly into the creative subconscious mind as you read along. What appears like a story is a series of self-hypnotic sessions, designed to bring about desired lifestyle changes. The inner mind is creative & rather child-like, loving to play with images, especially when they are emotionalized. Just like the saying, "a picture is worth a thousand words", well-planted mind images, can be worth hours of therapy. We can actually change or motivate in 1/200th of a second. So come along & look forward to some lifestyle-changing events

CONFUSION EXITING

Did you ever wonder how you can be so successful in other areas of your life, but not in managing your weight or Disorderly Eating? I've worked with some very successful people over the years, who were stunned at their ineptitude in this arena of life & who had to be brought back to the SchoolHouse to have a re-install of their ABC's. In fact, I've met many people who never had an original install of these very basic programs, mainly because the ABC's weren't practiced in their family of origin or in the relationships they built after leaving home.

It is almost impossible to stay clear & focused without the practice of the ABC's. The connected mindBody depend completely on how you go about your day & what you deliver to them on an ongoing basis. That means in the form of nutrition, deep relaxation & release, as well as the management of thoughts & emotions. You already know that the body produces chemicals in response to thoughts & emotions. Some of these chemicals enhance negative stress, while others produce healing chemicals, opening the mind for creativity. While books are written on these subjects & you can certainly become a student of these studies, please do not get lost in your reading. Many people do this. They have collections of books on the subjects of weight loss & management, relaxation, stress-releasing, etc., but their reading has not led them into consistent action. They know lots of things, but have no set plans & no plan for execution or motivation. In fact, most of these people are more highly stressed & confused than others who haven't taken this library route.

WHAT'S GOING ON NOW

The emotional children are already in the SchoolHouse with their Golden Egg Shapes on, ready to install their ABC programs. You can either observe from outside, or come inside & take a seat in the back of the room. From this position you can be an observer, as the programs enter subconscious mind via the route of the childSelves who will actually be motivational helpers to yourSelf. Balanced emotions are always helpful & can be very pro-active in positive ways once they are well-educated.

ABC's

Always begin with the beautifully orchestrated ABC's. The subconscious mind is child-like & playful, eager to have these programs installed or re-installed. First on the list is Nutrition. That is the "A" position. Nothing can be accomplished without providing the mindBody with proper nutrition, in the proper serving sizes & at the right time. This is a GIVEN. The mindBody needs protein, healthy slow-glycemic carbohydrates & healthy fat at each meal. The mindBody cannot exist on junk. Junk includes refined sugars, empty carbohydrates & processed foods. The mindBody needs small, healthy meals & not gigantic portions. The nutritional details are provided in another section of the book, but your TeacherSelf would like to emphasize that this is not a difficult request. Unfortunately, most individuals forget to practice letter "A". They may do it for one meal or for one day, but that is not the way the mindBody works. If the letter "A" is not done, or done in a sloppy fashion, both the mind & body suffer, both in the short-run & in the long-run. No one gets away with a sloppy letter "A." This is not just about having excess body weight, because there are just as many "A" failures who are thin, as who are obese. They also will not escape the outcomes of failing letter "A."

Letter "B" is all about deep relaxation. Heightened awareness of the "circus of the world" & knowing when to retreat to the Golden Egg for renewal. Failure of letter "B" can cause the development of stress related diseases, including Adult Onset Diabetes, heart & circulatory disease, cancer & a large array of chronic conditions that can weaken the immune system, leading one to an early death....as well as a life half-lived. Keep in mind that a failure of letter "A" also adds to the level of stress, thereby causing an early failure of letter "B." Your emotional children are learning to wear their Golden Egg Shapes. The more they practice, the better for you. Getting good at letters "A & B", not only lead to higher levels of health, but also performance in all areas of life. Good grades lead to heightened creativity & bonus' in every area of the Goal-den Path. ( Remember that early chapter? )

Letter "C" is all about managing thoughts & emotions. You already know that a failing grade in letter "C" can also lead to an early breakdown of the mindBody connection, leading to death or a life of ailing. Who wants that? Now you don't have to be a brain scientist to realize that if you fail letters "ABC", your chances for survival will be greatly compromised. Not the story you want to be writing! This blog/workshop/book is all about taking your ABC's to a much higher level than before. Perhaps your reason for reading this book has been to lose weight, but please don't limit yourSelf in this way. You are much more than your scale weight & deserve to bring more to your life experiences. You might be very suprised at where your SchoolHouse work will lead you.

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Copyright 2009 Elizabeth Bohorquez, RN, C.Ht
May not be copied or reproduced without permission of the author.

Elizabeth Bohorquez, RN, C.Ht is author of Sugar...the Hidden Eating Disorder & How to Lick It. She is also the writer/producer of over 350 mp3/CD programs in the areas of medicine, health, prevention, addictions, self-development & sports for adults & children.

http://www.hypnosis-audio.com
http://www.sugar-addiction.com
http://www.international-medical-health-writers.com

Morning School Bus Ride!

Vital Learning Nugget: Since Disorderly Eating issues need multiple changes, how can one succeed at achieving them all at the same time? For many, the truth is that one gets up each & every morning, stepping into the day that presents itself. Most behaviors & habits are on auto-pilot & so one responds "as if" on some sort of treadmill, often not awake or aware of what one is doing, until it's actually done, if one notices at all. I know people that maintain they're not fully awake until after a few cups of coffee. Some drive to work, still in a somnambulistic state, not even remembering getting into their car. While we may laugh at this, it's important to remember that part of this "dazed living" is due to the body & mind responding to a long history of poor nutrition & it's accompanying sleep disorder.

Staying clear & focused is paramount in managing all aspects of life. Sleep-living is not conducive to managing any kind of Disorderly Eating. All of this has to stop before progress can be made. You already know that Disorderly Eating has many facets to be managed. Organization is KEY. We must begin by identifying all of these facets & then designing a plan for change. Next comes the action, followed by motivation. In the Theater of Your Mind you learned how to be an excellent observer of yourSelf & your emotions. Now in the Schoolhouse, you are taking on the lessons for high level awareness & disassociation from the "circus" of the world. You have been given the imagery tool of the Golden Egg. We are now ready to build a "containment" for the first group of changes, that containment being the "morning school bus." From now on forward, you will no longer be waking up in the same old fog, but instead, you will be greated day after day with the image of your schoolbus pulling up at your bedside. Inside you'll meet your "driver", another version of your Therapeutic Self.

NOTE TO NEW READERS:

This experiential blog/workshop is based on my new book, "How Many Cookies Will It Take to Make Me Happy?" If you are new to my writing, you might want to read the earlier mini-chapters. They are available on FaceBook, The PublishersMarketPlace & at the following link. Remember to scan down to find the earliest chapters & work your way up. http://beyonddisorderlyeating.blogspot.com/
A bit of background.... we are working with creative Interactive Self-Hypnosis imagery, planting suggestions directly into the creative subconscious mind as you read along. What appears like a story is a series of self-hypnotic sessions, designed to bring about desired lifestyle changes. The inner mind is creative & rather child-like, loving to play with images, especially when they are emotionalized. Just like the saying, "a picture is worth a thousand words", well-planted mind images, can be worth hours of therapy. We can actually change or motivate in 1/200th of a second. So come along & look forward to some lifestyle-changing events

WHAT'S GOING ON NOW

The emotional childSelves are already present on the SchoolBus as it pulls up to your bed. They are very relaxed, having practiced with their Golden Egg Shapes. They are aware of the difference between being in the Circus of the World & being inside a deeply, relaxed environment. And while they realize that you are the leader, they can find their way back to a deeply, relaxed state very quickly. Your Therapeutic Self is in the driver's seat, ready to welcome you aboard.

MORNING SCHOOLBUS PICK UP

The SchoolBus image is a form of containment. That means that it keeps everything you need in one place. As your subconscious mind develops this image, it will become much easier to plant multiple changes. The SchoolBus & Therapeutic DriverSelf are programs unto themselves. As this image greets you as you awaken each morning, the mind will go into it's organized state for this particular "project", that of moving away from Disorderly Eating, into a group of healthy lifestyle behaviors. I'd like you to observe the bus pulling up at your bed. You can see it on the diorama board. If you like, you can think yourSelf in your bed, noticing the yellow bus arriving. You will enter the bus & take a seat near to the front. There is a television screen that is showing you the plan for the morning. It's very complete. This is the route that the SchoolBus will take. There is a built-in clock on the television screen, indicating that there is time for everything. The clock will also indicate if you need to change your wake-up time, in order to accomplish your plan. Once this is set, your subconscious mind will make certain that you are awake & ready. This is just the way the mind works.

Pay attention to the details on the screen. It will include all of your early morning activities including your personal care & nourishing your body & mind. We've already visited the MindBody Health Garden & so you do know about breakfast choices, including portion sizes, etc. You also know if you are bringing lunch or snacks to work. If you stay at home, the details are designed especially for you. Each of these activities is a STOP on the bus. Once you enter the bus, your driver will bring you to each activity & you will participate in each activity EXACTLY as directed. There are no deviations from the plan.

Later on, in the SchoolHouse, you will be instructed to work further on your daily bus plans, including activating newly edited plans & motivating them at higher levels.

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Copyright 2009 Elizabeth Bohorquez, RN, C.Ht
May not be copied or reproduced without permission of the author.

Elizabeth Bohorquez, RN, C.Ht is author of Sugar...the Hidden Eating Disorder & How to Lick It. She is also the writer/producer of over 350 mp3/CD programs in the areas of medicine, health, prevention, addictions, self-development & sports for adults & children.

http://www.hypnosis-audio.com
http://www.sugar-addiction.com
http://www.international-medical-health-writers.com

Circus of the World

Staying clear & focused is paramount in managing all aspects of life, of course including compulsive, emotional or secret eating. As we move through this experiental blog/workshop, you will come to notice that disorderly eating is not just about one thing, but many things. And so, in order to manage eating habits & behaviors, one needs to be in heightened awareness, ready & willing to identify all areas. Next, as you already know, comes your job as "writer, director & producer. In the Theater of Your Mind you learned how to be an excellent observer of yourSelf & your emotions. Now in the Schoolhouse, you are taking on the lessons for high level awareness & disassociation from the "circus" of the world. It is from this position that you will be able to "manage your moment" with quick expertise. These are the Keys to managing emotional, compulsive, secret & other disorderly eating issues.

NOTE TO NEW READERS:

This experiential blog/workshop is based on my new book, "How Many Cookies Will It Take to Make Me Happy?" If you are new to my writing, you might want to read the earlier mini-chapters. They are available on FaceBook, The PublishersMarketPlace & at the following link. Remember to scan down to find the earliest chapters & work your way up. http://beyonddisorderlyeating.blogspot.com/
A bit of background.... we are working with creative Interactive Self-Hypnosis imagery, planting suggestions directly into the creative subconscious mind as you read along. What appears like a story is a series of self-hypnotic sessions, designed to bring about desired lifestyle changes. The inner mind is creative & rather child-like, loving to play with images, especially when they are emotionalized. Just like the saying, "a picture is worth a thousand words", well-planted mind images, can be worth hours of therapy. We can actually change or motivate in 1/200th of a second. So come along & look forward to some lifestyle-changing events

WHAT'S GOING ON NOW

The emotional childSelves are practicing putting the Golden Eggs on & from this inner position, looking out at the "circus of the world." They are sensing their deeply relaxed bodies & are being instructed to "scan" them, just as if a hand-scanner was moving slowly over them, each scanning moment taking them deeper down into relaxation. Scan....down. Scan....deeper down. Body mechanisms slowing & entering homeostasis or balance. Mind activity slowing, entering homeostasis or balance. Stress-chemical reading slowing, entering homeostasis or balance.Now, looking outside the golden facade to the "exterior circus of the world." Noticing they are observers, but not involved in the happenings. This is the practice of disassociation, a powerful self-hypnotic tool.

THE CIRCUS TENT

From your experiences in the Theater of the Mind, you already know that life is exhibited on a "stage." It includes the environment, the actorYou, the emotional childSelves, their energy & others who cross the path in your life experience. You have already practiced observing & then re-directing different life scenarios & you are familiar with the process. Today in the schoolhouse your emotions are practicing heightened observation or awareness. This is how negative energy levels are diminished. In the future you will also choose to enhance some positive energy levels, taking you into other creative areas. The circus tent is a metaphor for ongoing life. It goes on outside of the Golden Learning Egg. The youSelf is either involved in the Circus or observing from inside the Golden Egg. We are working with images of the emotional childSelves because the more you are able to identify them, the more powerful you will become in managing your energy. The goal is always to wake up to destructive emotions & to diminish them. Here they are doing it for themselves, so there is never a debate or argument. They know what to do even before you direct them. If you spot an "out of control" compulsive emotion, just a moment of awareness puts them inside the Golden Egg, rather like a well-trained puppy.

I'd like you to have a look at some of the Circus areas having to do with your Disorderly Eating issues. You already know many of them from working in the Theater of the Mind, but this is a good opportunity to place them in the Circus scenario. You'll also be able to identify some of your more "popular" emotional childSelves as they hang out in their Circus circle. I'd also like you to notice that each Circus Circle is separate. Remember, eating issues are about many different areas & as you become better at defining them, you will become more powerful in your self-management. Create a Circus Circle for your kitchen activities, work related to food, relationships related to food, restaurants & any other compulsive, emotional or secret Circus Circles. Pay attention to the names on the shirts of the emotional childSelves. Now notice you are doing this from inside your Golden Egg. If you find yourSelf acting out in any Circus Circle, move yourSelf back inside the Egg. Just thinking it, will be enough to move you back to your position of Power.

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Copyright 2009 Elizabeth Bohorquez, RN, C.Ht
May not be copied or reproduced without permission of the author.

Elizabeth Bohorquez, RN, C.Ht is author of Sugar...the Hidden Eating Disorder & How to Lick It. She is also the writer/producer of over 350 mp3/CD programs in the areas of medicine, health, prevention, addictions, self-development & sports for adults & children.

http://www.hypnosis-audio.com
http://www.sugar-addiction.com
http://www.international-medical-health-writers.com

Inside the Golden Learning Egg

Knowledge is King, but how new learning is placed in your subconscious mind will effect how it is retrieved & therefore how useful it will be "in the moment" when you need it. Working hypnotically may be a new experience for you & while you have been schooled before, here you will be learning to be a student of "lifestyle change", entering the learning experience through the doors of Original Interactive Self-hypnosis. The techniques being presented may be somewhat different from your other learning experiences & so it will be important to keep an open mind, while entertaining positive & elevated expectations. In other words, a new mindset, breaking the mold, welcoming this approach with full expectation of being highly successful in "new ways." Remember, what you think is what you will receive. If you think that working with creative imagery is silly or is a waste of time, you will be setting up blocks or resistance, disallowing you to utilize these most powerful, self-fulfilling, mind-developing tools.

NOTE TO NEW READERS:

This experiential blog/workshop is based on my new book, "How Many Cookies Will It Take to Make Me Happy?" If you are new to my writing, you might want to read the earlier mini-chapters. They are available on FaceBook, The PublishersMarketPlace & at the following link. Remember to scan down to find the earliest chapters & work your way up. http://beyonddisorderlyeating.blogspot.com/
A bit of background.... we are working with creative Interactive Self-Hypnosis imagery, planting suggestions directly into the creative subconscious mind as you read along. What appears like a story is a series of self-hypnotic sessions, designed to bring about desired lifestyle changes. The inner mind is creative & rather child-like, loving to play with images, especially when they are emotionalized. Just like the saying, "a picture is worth a thousand words", well-planted mind images, can be worth hours of therapy. We can actually change or motivate in 1/200th of a second. So come along & look forward to some lifestyle-changing events

WHAT'S GOING ON NOW

Own each & every image! Within the SchoolHouse walls all lessons will be received with excitement & positive expectation. All emotional childSelves are highly receptive, even if they had been negative in the past. All forms of negativity & DVD backpacks are left outside, where they are bathed in the light of the Higher Power, transmuting or changing them into helpful new mind programs. Changing emotional energy is a major part of your work here & will continue throughout your life, not only in this particular area, but in all areas.


MORE ABOUT YOUR THERAPEUTIC TEACHER-SELF

You now know that there are different parts to your Therapeutic Self. Your Therapeutic TeacherSelf is one of those very important parts. Others include your ParentSelf & PhysicianSelf. Your SpiritualSelf lives within all three parts, dispensing spiritual or Universal energy to all parts, thereby continually releasing any & all emotional stressors. Once again, own your images. Seeing or sensing these parts will be very helpful to you, for at any moment you can call forth these Archtypes to assist you in returning to balance. Today, your Therapeutic TeacherSelf is in the schoolhouse, ready to work with this spiritual light or energy.

Remember that you are working with a diorama or model of your schoolhouse. This enables you to observe all the happenings inside, as well as giving you the opportunity to change things as you see fit. In addition, if you prefer, you can shrink yourself down & take a seat in the back of the classroom. This can provide an even bigger impact, especially in a class like today's. Your TeacherSelf stands tall in front of the emotional childSelves, delivering respect & focused attention. The children sit up in their seats, following the energy delivered by the Teacher. It's easy to notice how they are directed by energy & you make a note to remember this fact, for indeed, they follow the energy you deliver as well. You now realize that you are responsible for calling your emotions forward & then "energy-feeding" them. This Knowledge brings you enormous power, for this is how change comes about. No longer will you be fooled by emotions that push you around, taking you down paths of self-destruction & disease.

THE GOLDEN LEARNING EGG

The mind & body learn best in a physiological/emotional position of deep relax. In this state the mind slows, the body processes slow & the subconscious mind is receptive to suggestions. You already know that you can evoke this state in 1/200th of a second. Images are powerful change tools & are very quick. Here we will utilize an image of a big "golden learning egg shape." Your TeacherSelf draws it for the class & each emotional child draws one for itself. Go ahead & do the same for you, simply on your mind screen. Your mind screen is located just outside of your eyes. If you close them, it's right behind your closed eyes. You do know that place. Whatever you place there, is accepted as "what you want." The Teacher demonstrates taking the Golden Egg image off of the mind screen & placing is around you. Notice the emotions doing just that. In this position, the Golden Egg is free to expand, making it a comfortable place to rest. Sense the body settling & relaxing deeply, being protected from outside activity. The Teacher explains that the purpose of the Golden Egg is to give you a deep resting place, separate from the "circus of the world" which lives outside of the Egg. From your "inside" position, you can relax, recover & also disassociate yourSelf from the "circus."

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Copyright 2009 Elizabeth Bohorquez, RN, C.Ht
May not be copied or reproduced without permission of the author.

Elizabeth Bohorquez, RN, C.Ht is author of Sugar...the Hidden Eating Disorder & How to Lick It. She is also the writer/producer of over 350 mp3/CD programs in the areas of medicine, health, prevention, addictions, self-development & sports for adults & children.

http://www.hypnosis-audio.com
http://www.sugar-addiction.com
http://www.international-medical-health-writers.com